Did you find yourself being very uncomfortable when you know, or really see, someone you loved is going to “closed” to others?
It is so uncomfortable that, you really want to pull him out, and trying to “protect” him from being taken away from you.
Sometimes, you “loved” him/her so much that, if you can know everything about him, you will feel safe, and comfort.
But if they are trying to “hide” someone, suddenly you find really “unsafe” and start questioning: is he really my “Mr. Right”?
This uncomfortable feeling is called “Jealousy” and, it did no good to him, and you.
This is an extremely destructive emotion and, when one of you, or worst, both of you, are having this emotion, your relationship will be destroyed and can’t be recovered.
Why would this emotion happen?
It is primarily because, you don’t believe that this relationship is worth for you. It is so lovely, and he is so good, that you don’t think you worth it.
Therefore you are trying all your best to “protect” this by trying to find out what he is doing every minute, or second.
You want to “make sure” that he would not go away.
So how to transform this emotion to something that is good for you, and him?
One thing is transforming your emotion of jealous to believe that you are a valuable, and lovely person that your partner is eager and fortunate to fall into a relationship with you.
And there are also other ways that can also transform those bad emotions into a good one.